Hospitality. If there is one month that is focused around a meal, it is November and the Thanksgiving feast! It also signals the start of the holiday season. So what better time to tune up on some of your hospitality moves. You have a couple weeks before you'll need your fat pants, so here's a cheat sheet of November Hospitality Preparedness.

Are you hosting the holiday meal at your house this month? Now, and I mean right now, is the time to get your game on. Even if you don't completely have your menu finalized I encourage you to get your table’s vibe down pat. Nothing says “welcome” and sets the mood for a holiday celebration like a carefully thought out table. As an added bonus, if the mashed potatoes are lumpy and the turkey is dry, at least your beautiful table will be a great distraction for any unfortunate culinary mishap.

For the first task, make sure you have a estimate of how many people are coming over. Now you know how many to plan for. Check.

Next, determine your style. Are you going for a rustic, casual, glam, traditional or eclectic feel? If you don’t know, I often start thinking of what I already own that I could decorate with to enhance the feeling.

One last hosting note before you change your focus to all things food preparation . . . Grab any paper products you might need (like cocktail/ dinner/ dessert napkins) now. If you want “Thanksgiving Themed” napkins you should still be able to grab some. If you have missed it . . . just go to the local party store and pick up some complimentary colored paper napkins. Feeling fancy? You may already own the napkins you need. Now is the time you could pull out the cloth napkins that you never use. Just throw them in the wash and iron prior to use. No time for either of these options? Hit the grocery store and grab a plain white dinner napkin. You can always make them festive for the table with a ribbon or have the kids put some stickers on them just for fun. Or . . . just set the table and just use the darn white napkins. Not everything has to be a statement.

As a final last word fearless host, remember that although the table might be pretty (and a fun diversion) the main attraction is always the people sitting around the table with you. So go into your holiday hosting season with fervor and let the spirit of gratitude and kindness guide you.

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